School is out, and summer is rolling in! Summertime is a fun and relaxed time of year when kids get a little break from their school responsibilities. Even though a completely carefree summer is tempting, it is important to remember that kids do best with some structure. Rules and routines can help create peace in your home when everyone is clear about the expectations. Afterall, Kids thrive on routine and knowing what to expect.
Ideas for summer rules and routines:
- Try to keep bedtime and wakeup somewhat consistent even if it is later than during the school year. Avoid letting your child stay up all night and sleep all day!
- Schedule daily activities to get your child out of the house:
- Go swimming
- Check out museums
- Try a new park or playground
- Make running errands an adventure
- Set up regular play dates
- Go to the library
- Set up a daily schedule and follow it. Rules are best made in advance. Take time to sit down and think about what you expect from your child. Cover important recurring daily issues such as mealtime, bedtime, bath time and chores. Create specific routines that are simple and easy to follow. Involve children in the preliminary discussion about family rules. They often contribute excellent ideas and insights.
- Find ways to fit in plenty of physical activity. Kids sit a lot during the school year, so over the summer they should get up and move!
- Have a list of fun activities visibly posted so that when kids state, “I’m bored!” you can tell them to pick an activity off the list. It is important to note that boredom isn’t always a bad thing, it can be a great way for kids to get creative on their own and think outside the box!
- Don’t create an unrealistic routine or try to keep up with what another family is doing. Be fair and realistic with your schedule, with your kids, and with yourself.
How kids benefit from summer rules and routines:
- Gives structure to the day
- Provides some predictability - kids thrive on routine and knowing what to expect
- Creates more stability - which helps kids feel safe, secure, and cared for
- Prevents unstructured chaos
- Reinforces family values and priorities
- Helps develop a sense of responsibility when it includes chores and household tasks
- Teaches healthy habits
- Builds trust between children and caregivers
Remember, you know your family best, so find what works for your specific needs and have a fun, relaxing and memorable summer!
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